What can I Expect when I begin to
Meditate or become part of a Meditation Circle?
This is a question I found myself asking when I began. And this
is what I discovered.
If you have never tried to meditate before, becoming part of a circle for awhile
would be very beneficial as the experienced meditators, help the novice move
into the state of meditation by the process of just being with them or like I
like to call it by osmosis.
One first begins to feel more at ease with the world and life. Definitely less
stressed. Many of those that have come to circles I have been apart of, have
found this the lifesaver in a very stressful lifestyle, whether it be a
stressful job, relationship or any other number or combinations of stresses
which we all deal with in our daily life. Meditation helps one create a time
which is devoted to quiet and calm. A space away from every day worries and
obligations.
Sometimes the beginner finds that his or her mind cannot help thinking about the
day’s activities or problems which are in his/her life. Do not fault yourself
for these, allow them to float through your mind and do not hold onto them.
Eventually they will stop. They are distractions which your ego is creating
because you are pursuing something different and it, the ego is trying to
protect itself. That is why guided meditations seem to help, by taking you on a
mental journey, your own thoughts are allowed to come to a halt and lets you
experience a mental holiday.
Guided meditations’ main purpose is to occupy your mind to the point where you
move into a state of meditation. It is not unusual for meditators listening to
these to come out of the meditation not remembering anything. Not remembering
anything has allowed one to move into the silence, the real goal of all
meditation. This is a place of infinite healing for the mind and the body. Savor
the times when you reach this depth of meditation.
Sometimes right away, but usually after some time of having been meditating, you
begin to have images, thoughts or colors come into your awareness. These are
very different from the thoughts you normally perceive. Again allow these to
float through your mind. These experiences first seem like your mind has
developed a fantastic ability to imagine and how could it be anything else? When
this starts, it is a good time to again be in the environment of a reputable
meditation circle. The facilitator and other members will help you see that you
really are not going crazy or out of your mind, but that these experiences are
part of your own healing and development, and can represent many facets of who
you really are. Always question what you experience and ask for confirmations.
If you are part of a group, someone in the group may say or verify what you have
experienced. If you are not able to participate in a group, find someone who
understands what you are going through. This may be a trusted friend or family
member or a reputable psychic. Confirmation always helps to keep you feeling
your sanity is intact.
When you are a part of a meditation circle which meets regularly, there is a
trust that develops with the members and when that trust has created strong
enough bonds between the members, people begin to experience some interesting
things. Sometimes they join one another’s experiences. Sometime they will have
similar experiences from different perspectives. And sometimes one member will
have a message for another. These are all part of the subtle workings of being
in a meditation development circle.
Having been a member and a facilitator of a number of groups, every experience
is unique and never seizes to amaze me. They are all full of magic and they are
all wonders of the unseen world in which we live.
©2004 Hanne Csanyi
This article appeared in Mosaic: Mind Body
and Spirit 29th issue Winter Issue 2004 pg 22,24
Through meditation and divination one can open up awareness to other realms of existence within and without of oneself – a journey which may ultimately lead one to enlightenment.
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